some times its really hard for others to step out of what they know (from their perspective) and see the big picture.
to step into someone else’s shoes and see how they became the person they at that moment.
in my opinion, to fully grasp who a person is, you must relinquish what you think you know. fully listen to that person and comprehend where they were, where they are, and what they want to be..
only then, can you emotionally grasp the full concept of knowing, understanding and loving a person.
with this same presence, you can fully love YOURSELF.

in the end we are all fully capable of giving love and being love.
..at times we we have to step back to pinpoint how we forgot how to love.